couple’s wedding plans have hit a rough patch due to a sensitive issue. The groom-to-be is upset because his fiancée wants to include photos of her late husband at their wedding. She sees it as a way to honor her past, but he struggles with having the memory of another man on their special day.

The man shared his story:

My fiancée and I have been together for about 3 years and got engaged 6 months ago.

While planning, she asked me, “Where should we put a picture of my late husband?” I was confused and asked her to explain.

She said she wanted a photo of her late husband at the wedding. She went on to say she wants a bridesmaid to hold his picture during the ceremony, to have his photo on our table, and to hold his picture in most of the wedding photos.

I told her I didn’t want that. While I know he’s important to her, I felt uncomfortable having his photos so prominently at our wedding.

We argued, and she yelled, “I can’t believe you’re jealous! He’s dead!”

I decided to postpone the wedding, and honestly, I’m thinking of canceling it altogether.